How to Avoid Sex in a Relationship – Here’s 3 Powerful Strategies

Posted on September 15, 2017 in Uncategorized

Many young girls and even some boys want to know how to avoid sex in a relationship. If you are not aware of this, many youngsters now prefer to abstain from sex before marriage. The risk of unwanted pregnancies and the likelihood of contracting sexually transmitted diseases are deterring a lot of wise youngsters from engaging in sex before marriage. But a problem can arise when one of the partners in the relationship wants to abstain from sex while the other wants to go ahead. There is a potential for conflict here unless the person who wants to avoid sex knows how to deal with the situation. If you find yourself in similar circumstances, this article is just for you.

3 Powerful Strategies to help convince your partner to avoid sex in a relationship

1. Most youngsters do not think about the consequences of having sex before marriage. They are too immature to stop and think about things that can go awfully wrong after the sex act. The millions of teen pregnancies and the resulting abortions that take place around the globe on a daily basis happen primarily because young people don’t stop to think about the consequences of having sex before marriage. Every time you have sex, you give birth to a consequence which could be any of the following.

Nearly 50% of all youngsters between the ages of 15 and 24 indulging in sex before marriage will contract a sexually transmitted disease. This is an official finding made by the United States government. (The source of that information is given below the article). This means that every alternate couple having sex before marriage will end up having a sexually transmitted disease. The really sad thing is most young people are not aware of this alarming fact. You can use these statistics as a deterrent to avoid having sex with your partner. Show these statistics to your partner and take the decision together to abstain from sex.

2. What do you do if your partner is not convinced? It is your health and your life that is at stake. If you contract a sexually transmitted disease, will your partner look after you or pay your medical bills? In fact you need to ask yourself several important questions, and answer those questions as honestly as you possibly can. Just think about this. Can you say for sure that your partner is not infected with any kind of sexually transmitted disease? Do you have any kind of medical evidence to prove it? Do you know for sure that your partner doesn’t have sex with anyone else? Or if they have had sex with even one more individual apart from you, can you be sure that that individual is not infected? Can you really handle a pregnancy or an abortion at this age? You need to ponder over these questions and answer them truthfully. You then need to make a quality decision. The decision that you take can literally save your life.

3. Many people are deceived with the idea of “safe sex”. But in reality, there is no such thing called “safe sex”. It is just a myth. There is abundant proof that condoms do not always prevent AIDS or other sexually transmitted diseases. There is also evidence that pregnancies cannot be totally avoided with the use of pills, condoms and diaphragms. So many women still get pregnant after adopting these birth control methods. So a pregnancy can still happen, even after you have taken all these precautions. But still worse, you can end up contracting AIDS or some other life threatening disease. You need to decide whether the price you pay for a few moments of pleasure in bed has to be an unwanted pregnancy or a life-threatening disease. You can verify the statistics mentioned in this article at The United States President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief website.

Tips and Methods For Safer Sex

Posted on September 13, 2017 in Uncategorized

Sex is the most pleasing activity of our life. Its attractions and rewards are enormous. It is not untrue to say ‘no sex no life.’ Life without sex will certainly become a dull and bore routine, meaningless and fruitless. While this natural process is full of such tremendous excitements, it is also full of life threatening hazards.

We all know the alarming situation of sexually transmitted diseases, where AIDS or HIV is more dominant and deadly. The toll is rising fast since people seek illegitimate sexual outlets where you do not know your sexual partners’ standing (perhaps you are not the only one having sex with him or her); you do not know with what diseases he or she is suffering from. The answer to such a question is, avoid unprotected sex with new partners or while having sex outside the marriage boundary. But how safe is the use of condom, is it 100% safe?

The safest mean, of course, is the sexual relations between a husband and wife. This is what we consider the natural limits. When we cross any limit set by the nature, it will certainly punish us. Anal sex and sex between two identical sexes, all are like crossing the nature’s boundary that invites certain punishments. As a result of crossing the limits set up by the nature, we find the rising cases of sexually transmitted diseases, and the life threatening hazards of AIDS or HIV.

Unprotected sex invites negative consequences, such as incurable diseases (HIV, AIDS, Hepatitis, and Herpes), curable diseases (Syphilis, Chlamydia, Gonnorhea), Infertility, Cervical cancer, unwanted pregnancy and other complications associated with its termination, etc.

It is not fair and logical to advice to stay away from sex to save oneself from getting any sexually transmitted disease. Sex is a great gift of the nature which has to be enjoyed as much as possible. You can’t stay away from sex and yet find the life enjoyable. Of course legitimate sex between a wife and husband is the safest mean to enjoy with this precious gift, but it is, of course, not always possible. We should, therefore, try to find more tips and methods for safer sex.

The use of condom prevents you from acquiring many sexually transmitted diseases; but this method is not 100% safe, be careful.

Put on the condom carefully; pinch the air out of the top when putting it on otherwise the condom can break. If you have to use lubricants, use a water-based one, otherwise other lubricating media like body lotion, butter, petroleum jelly, etc can break down latex condoms.

Use condoms of very high quality and only certified ones. Ensure condom’s health (validity, proper storage, etc).

Avoid having sex with completely strange people. Remember, condoms are not 100% safe.

While engaging in oral sex, do not forget the hygienic side. Both he and she must clean the private parts before the act.

Avoid anal sex at all (don’t forget nature’s punishment).

Avoid anal and vaginal penetration during the course of single intercourse session.

Avoid using uncertified oils (in case of vaginal dryness), and other substances for lubrication; this is essential to prevent fungal and other infections.

Avoid having sex with sex workers, for the very apparent reasons which we all know. Do not rely on condoms.

Sex is a natural drive which, if done properly while taking care of the necessary precautions, can give you the pleasure which no other act can offer.

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How To Avoid Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)

Posted on September 11, 2017 in Uncategorized

I will like to start by explain the meaning of sexually transmitted disease. This is a disease that one can get through sexual intercourse. In a world where there are so many STDs with out cure, it will be better to avoid getting a deadly disease. As the saying going says, prevention is better than cure.

As we all know, a sexually transmitted diseases is a type of disease which one get by having indiscriminate and unprotected sex. How can one really avoid getting a sexually transmitted disease? Is sexually transmitted disease good for human? Definitely no. No sane human will like to get a sexually transmitted disease.

For one to avoid getting a sexually transmitted disease, knowledge of how one can get it should be a necessity. The major way through which one can get STDs is through – having indiscriminate and unprotected sex.

For people who are still single, the only sure way to avoid getting a sexually transmitted disease is to practice abstinence. Yes! The only way to avoid getting STD is to avoid having sex.

For the married people, the only way to avoid getting STDs is to be faithful to your marriage partner. Yes when you do this, you will escape the wrath of deadly sexually transmitted diseases like HIV/AIDs,

Most sexually transmitted diseases can be avoided to some extent by practicing safe sex. Safe sex involves the use of condoms.

Example of sexually transmitted diseases includes Chlamydia, Syphilis, HIV and AIDS, Gonorrhea, etc

In summary, the best way to avoid sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) is to avoid high-risk behaviors and practice safe sex.

Abstinence is still the only ultimate way to completely avoid getting STDs.

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