Safe Sex is Important

Safe sex also known as safer sex is a way to protect and prevent you from the possibility of catching HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases. Safe sex means not allowing body fluids- blood, semen, vaginal fluids- into your body from one partner to the other.

Although safe sex doesn’t guarantee that you will not catch HIV, but it reduces the risk enormously.

The only way for not getting the sexually transmitted diseases (STD) is abstinence that is having no sex at all. But this is not possible and you cannot refrain from involving into sexual activity therefore safe sex becomes important. Some STDs can be treated but there is no cure for many of them. HIV and Hepatitis B have serious effects on the people affected by it. AIDS (Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome) is caused by HIV infection (Human Immunodeficiency Virus). A person who has been infected with HIV is an HIV positive (HIV+) otherwise he or she is known as being HIV negative (HIV-). AIDS and HIV are incurable. Safe sex is the only way to protect from such incurable diseases. HIV virus is transmitted through body fluids including blood, ejaculate (cum), pre-ejaculate (pre-cum) and female genital fluids (both vaginal and cervical fluid). Therefore it is necessary to take precautions and keep yourself protected from the virus as well as protecting your partners. Going for sex without the use of condom carries the highest risk of getting the sex diseases.

Safe sex also means avoiding contact with your partner’s infected body parts such as herpes sores or warts. Although oral sex is considered safe yet there is risk involved if one of the partner’s has gum problems. Bleeding gums and other teeth diseases can get you close to STDs. Herpes has been said to be transmitted from genitals to mouth and mouth to genitals. You may also have cut or sores in your mouth that could cause harm. Oral sex is much less risky than anal or vaginal sex.

Sexually transmitted diseases can be caused if a person has multiple sex partners. If a person has sex with an STD or HIV infected person or has sex with a person who has multiple sex partners.

To protect you from sexually transmitted diseases you should have safe sex. For that the use of condoms is the safest method. Condoms guarantees 90% safety if used properly. Whatever type of sexual activity you are involved in it is important to play safe and prevent yourself from unplanned pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.

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The Disease of Sex Addiction II

Many people resist the notion that sex addiction is a disease. But in The Minnesota Model, a seminal book on addiction recovery, Spicer points out the similarities between chemical dependence and the disease concept. Borrowing from George Vaillant’s The Natural History of Alcoholism, Spicer shows how chemical dependence, like a disease, cuts across cultural and socioeconomic lines, is progressive, has specific signs and symptoms, and has a recommended course of treatment. In our view, sex addiction is no different. Here’s why:

Does Not Discriminate

First, like other diseases, sex addiction is an equal opportunity disease. It could care less about your race or culture. It doesn’t care about the fact that you’re young, middle-aged, or elderly. And it doesn’t care if you’re broke or wealthy. It’s a debilitating disease that affects people from all walks of life without discrimination or prejudice.

Progressive

Second, like other diseases, sex addiction is progressive. The frequency, intensity, and measure of risk increases with time. Masturbation may progress from once-a-week to three times a day. What began as a once-a-year trip to get an erotic massage turns into a twice-a-week event. The need for greater intensity leads to greater risk-taking. In the process, sex addicts contract sexually transmitted diseases, get caught in sting operations, and even commit suicide. Spicer writes that “people with a disease find their responses are less flexible.” The sex addict’s response to the normal ups and downs of life become progressively confined to a single, destructive response: the search for sexual satisfaction.

Has Recognizable Signs and Symptoms

Third, like other diseases, sex addiction shows certain signs and symptoms. Addicts often display some of the following symptoms: a deep feeling of shame and guilt following acting out behavior, constant obsession with acting out, and general malaise if unable to engage in the behavior. They also show the following signs: an inordinate amount of time spent in the pursuit of and recuperating from sex, unsuccessful attempts at stopping their behavior on their own, and decreased engagement in social, professional, or recreational activities. Once people acknowledge that they need help, they complain of having most, if not all of these signs and symptoms.

Has a Recommended Treatment

Finally, like other diseases, the diagnosis comes with a set of specific interventions that promote recovery. In its simplest form the prescription is this: individual therapy, group therapy, and 12-step meetings. In the process of participating in these relational activities, one needs learn about their disease and the tools needed to recover from it, how to manage their emotions without acting out, and maybe most importantly, how to be honest with themselves and others. When sex addicts follow the suggested course of treatment, it’s our experience that they recover to live happy and meaningful lives.

How to Make Your Sex Become Extraordinary (Amazing Sex Habit)

Having sex (making love) is one form of communication in the relationship between men and women, especially for those who have married. That’s why sex is important for those who have settled down, for the need of variety of ways to have sex with your partner can take more remarkable (amazing sex habits).

The first thing that might be done is more aggressive behavior. This may be more emphasized on the female side. Various touches ranging from a kiss or a whisper in your partner’s ear can surely arouse your husband. Maybe you can improvise by adding with a mischievous whisper with a naughty smile from your sexy lips. With the more aggressive women, it can make possible your lovemaking ritual will be more attractive because most men prefer their partners to be more aggressive or act in a more mischievous.

Your appearance when having sex relationships can take the impact on the quality of your sexual relationship. The more attractive you are both, the more easily for you both to enjoy your intimate relationships. Attractiveness and sexiness is not necessarily synonymous with lavish appearance. It can be simple enough appearance but look inviting enough from the eyes of your partner. Then your body should be fresh and fragrant well to support your performance in a sexual relationship with your partner. Fresh and fragrance body can be used as a tool to attract your partner to always be excited. In another word, it can be said for being sexy you should keep your body always fresh and fragrant.

Focus, focus, and focus (for being focused). Build your mind to get better focus on your sexual activities, forget your entire mind. Try to relax and give your body a chance to enjoy having sex with your partner.

Communication is your main requirement in a relationship. Thus, try to be able to establish intimate communication with your partner even when you have intercourse with your partner. In your intimate relationships communication is very necessary. The communication between partners could be established by showing the moans as a bookmark if you really enjoy your sexual relationship, or naughty seductive words to make your relationship last. By establishing communication with it, it will impact on your emotional closeness as a couple. The more time you spend time with him, the greater your chance to enjoy the event intercourse with your partner.

Spontaneous action of one partner will further be the enjoyment and also leave a deep impression in your sex experience. In doing this spontaneous attack action you also have to look at the condition or choosing the right time. Although it means you should not hold on the specifics time especially if your partner has memorized your sex act. You must be spontaneous to attack and hit the sensitive spots of your partner first. Your spontaneity in attack will make you relations have higher quality. Yet, you should keep your body to stay in fit condition and ready to fight in all conditions. To keep your body fits you can do a regular exercise as well as supply your body with nutritious and balanced food. Are you curious to try and practice it with your partner?