Sex, Sexual Health Concerns and Sexology – An Insight Into Your Problems and Solutions

Do you often find yourself questioning whether or not you’re a normal man or woman? Are there several occasions when you’re forced to doubt your manhood or womanhood, the only reason for which is Sex?

Well, if these are the things happening with you and think they might as well be the reasons of you being in depression, then you need to get educated now. Grab as much information as possible related to sex, sexual health concerns, sex diseases and sexology to find a possible answer to your questions.But before you start searching the internet for all possible bits of information, it’s recommended that you read this article until the end so as to be able to find an answer immediately.

To begin with, let ‘Sexology’ be the thing you want to read about-

Sexology refers to the scientific study of human sexuality and their sexual relationships. The scientific structure of sex and sexuality can be tracked back at least to the classical Greek period of the Western world, and even earlier to that in the Eastern world. Throughout the traces of history, any emphasis in sexological study was intended to focus on the outcomes of sex, rather than the experience of performing it.

However, in the current times, sexology is looked upon as a larger chapter, giving a lot of healthy insight on the things that are included in it. Right from the basics of sexual health to the problems that are associated with it and the related health problems; sexology becomes a huge area to be covered.

More so, sex isn’t just about a few moments of perfect romance or intimacy, rather it has a whole new aspect associated with it, usually the negative – Sexual Health and Sex Diseases.

This chapter of sex, usually the most neglected but also an important one has many facets to it. While most choose to ignore it to a huge extent, there are still a few who choose to talk about it and discuss with a concerned sexologist. Discussing your sex related concerns with a doctor doesn’t necessarily mean there is something definitely wrong with you that demands treatment, but it also doesn’t assure that you’re fit. A specialized sexologist will ask you a few necessary questions, suggest some tests and guide you accordingly. Your association with him and his guidance will have a huge role to play in your personal life.

While there is an alarming growth in the number of people facing one or the other form of sexual illness, there is also a huge amount of growth in those suffering from sexually oriented diseases. So whether you’re of those who’re willing to discuss about your sexual illness or a sexually transmitted disease, the only thing you need to do is get in touch with the right sexologist, preferably the one who’s trained and experienced to provide assistance and medication.

Amongst a huge list of sexual health problems and diseases, the ones that are usually the most talked about include- vaginal dryness, erectile dysfunction, reproductive issues, lack of desire, low libido, ejaculation problems, etc. All these health concerns can cause a major damage to your personal life, triggering depression, loss of intimation and love and can be a probable reason for separation between the partners; and you don’t want something like sex to ruin your lives.

Looking at the problems and the amount of negativity they cause in your life,it is recommended that you get in touch with a sexologist, someone who can look into your personal life and guide you in the best possible manner.

So, now you know – if you’re facing a problem during sex or lack the desire to make it happen, then meet a sexologist before you spoil your relationship with your partner. After all, sexual health, like emotional, mental, and physical health, is one important dimension of overall health.

A Disease That Gets Women In Trouble

Because of the physical difference, woman and man seem not to share the same rate of suffering a disease. Women are born as the weaker gender, and they tend to be more vulnerable to diseases than men. Especially, women are more likely to face more serious problems when suffering a infectious sex disease. The unexpected result of a study shows that more than half of women at the age of 20-35 on this globe are suffering an infectious disease called yeast infection.

As we know, women’s vagina is the precious natural part of their body. Vagina is able to bring the blessing feeling when having a sex but this is the ideal shelter for a variety of bacteria due to its high humidity. The vaginal infection can completely occur if the vagina is not only cleaned for a rather short time like 2 days or even fewer. There are quite a lot of kinds of bacteria that can cause vaginal infection. Therefore, when vaginal infection happens, the initial diagnosis is really hard and the women’s health are under high risk. One kind of vaginal infection which is brought about by a fungus named Candida is getting more and more popular today. This is yeast infection.

Yeast infection does not have the symptoms on the skin like itch, swelling. It can take negative effect on the other orgasm. Although yeast infection is not a fatal disease, its problems involved are really noticeable and completely uncomfortable. Infected women can suffer a lot of yeast infection problems. They usually find very miserable with the itch and sharp pains around the vulva. This kills the women’ daily joy in the life as well as the work. Obviously, infected women find problems with finishing the work with efficiency. In normal life, there are other problems involved with the sex. The feeling of being piercing and dry is to blame for this. The yeast infection problems really are women’s nightmare so it is important to know how to not suffer this disease.

Yeast infection can happen to anyone including the clean or the dirty. The first way of spread of yeast infection is sexual relation. It can be transmitted from the male or in the other way. The second cause of women’s yeast infection is the unusual sanitation of the vagina. In many cases, the appearance of soap around the vulva after bath really give an ideal opportunity for Candida bacteria to thrive on. There are a range of possible unexpected causes of this disease. It may be wearing such tight underwear or using low-quality merchandises for the vulva, or using unclear sanitary napkins. Above all, the bad situation of women’s health makes it easier for Candida bacteria to live and develop.

To sum up, women represent beauty and charm. However, to keep beauty and charm healthy requires beautiful gender ‘s carefulness in daily life with a huge amount of bacteria in the air.

Why Many Women Don’t Think About Sex

Laverne wrote the following to me:

“I have never had thoughts that picture me making love with my husband – or anyone else for that matter. I imagine connection, fun and feelings of love but never making love. If it was left up to me sex would never be on the agenda, just because it would never occur to me to make love. I know when my husband would like to make love, and I enjoy it when I do make love, but it would never cross my mind if he didn’t initiate. I feel I am missing being aware and connected to a part of me. Surely a reasonably balanced and mostly connected human being should have some sort of sex drive. Your thoughts and insights would be really appreciated. Thank you.”

Laverne is not alone in her experience. I hear this same thing from many of my women clients.

However, many women do think about romance, which can lead to sex. Women tend to think more about the process of intimacy – of fun, connection, and sharing feelings of love – rather than about the result. In fact, for many women focusing on the result is a turnoff.

The fact that Laverne can enjoy sex when her husband initiates it indicates that there is nothing wrong with her sexuality. It’s just that it’s not separate from her feelings of love and connection. It doesn’t occur to her to make love because her sexuality mostly emerges from her emotional connection with her husband. Some women, but not all, do experience a biological push toward sex during their ovulation. But even then, for most women, it needs to be in the context of emotional intimacy.

And herein lies the major difference between men and women – testosterone. While some women have higher than normal testosterone levels, most don’t, which means that most women are not biologically driven regarding having sex. Not so for most men. Testosterone creates the biological sex drive in men, while love, intimacy and romance often lead to women feeling sexual.

It would be helpful for our relationships if we all could accept that women who don’t think about having sex are generally not imbalanced or disconnected from their bodies.

What would happen in relationships if both men and women accepted that men are often more biologically driven and women are often more emotionally driven? Perhaps this could lead to deep appreciation for each other. There is truly nothing wrong with men for generally being more biologically driven than women, and there is nothing wrong with women for generally being more emotionally driven then many men. (Of course, none of this is always true, as some women are more biologically driven than their man, and some men are more emotionally driven then their woman. And these differences can just as easily show up in same-sex relationships).

If Laverne stops judging herself for not thinking about sex, and values what she contributes to their relationship, then perhaps she can also value her husband for his biology and for being the one to initiate sex. If her husband completely embraces his biology, perhaps he can fully appreciate what Laverne brings to the relationship regarding fun, love and connection. And he might be more wiling to tap into his ability to be romantic once he accepts this as a vital part of their relationship. By valuing themselves and each other for what they each bring to their sexual relationship, their differences can be a blessing for them rather than creating conflict.